You know something?
Nowadays, even if you put a counter on your blog
You don't really know who's coming across your blog anymore
It isnt just your friends or relatives or brothers and sisters
They may be ppl who you are not close to, ppl who you have
sworn never to meet them again and break-off-all-ties that sort
Or ppl who you have given them a tongue-in-cheek comment
or just those you are totally pissed off with and ppl who just
you regret knowing them etc etc.
These ppl are known as "SILENT READERS"
But I know they mean no harm
So aiya what the heck am I talking about?
Anyways, I know what I'm gonna post may be
offensive and I may regret in the days to come
But....I think I need an outlet to vent off some steam
I lost my bleeder in the refinery already
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(Sorry only related course ppl know)
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Well lets get down to things proper
1st of all
I would like to shamelessly claim that I can click
with most people
I can also stake my claim that I am able to hold
my conversation on almost any topic that is worth
any bit of saliva on
Be it
-Sports (F1, MotoGP, Soccer, NBA, Olympics etc etc)
-Politics (the local and overseas scene)
-World Issues (terrorism, US banks downfall, elections etc)
-Local Issues (Birth benefits, PM speech, education system)
-Relationships (BGR, BBR, GGR, animals-animals R)
-Future (Ambitions, jobs, dreams etc)
BUT
I can't really talk on anime
I can shoot off some like what Full Metal-what-thingy, Sailormoon
Slam Dunk, Cardcaptor Sukura, Bleach, Initial D or what
But I don't really go hardcore into them
So I find it hard to communicate with ppl who talks a lot
on anime
1st of all. I find that the Jap culture is not in us Singaporeans
I know ppl download watch and imitate their language or what
But it just doesnt seem right when you mouth off the opening song
of the Sailormoon or Bleach anime series
I know its a nice catchy tune to sing to
But...........then again
Not everything you have to share with others
And good things do have a limit
There can only be a limit until a point whereby too much good is bad
Its like:
-Smoking too much causes lung cancer
-Drinking gets you high (apparently for most girls who tell me)
but it spoils your liver
-Having too much sex spoils your private part
-Making too much money means you are too damn busy
to be spending your money instead
-And plenty of other stuff
Courtesy is good but it gets to a point whereby you will feel
-__-
Ok enough that feeling
I honestly raise my hand and tell you
I have a very low boiling point i.e I get angry easily
But I have a high tolerance for ppl I do not know very well
What do I mean by very well?
WE CANT CONTINUE TALKING WITHOUT YOU GETTING
INTERESTED IN ME WHILE I HAVE TO FIGURE OUT
WHICH TOPICS YOU CAN TALK ABOUT!
Yup. Thats tough isnt it?
I have to do the EQ thinking and I ask questions
which arouse your interest.
They say things are 2-ways
LOL! Anyone wanna tell me which direction this is going?
Give and take
give and take
I give you take
I give more you take more
Shame on me (not you apparently)
2nd point I wanna talk about
I read a book on how to become a better person
or something along the line
Those self-enriching books you see?
There's one part they mention something whereby you prolong
your happiness by not stressing over small matters and
think about the joyous moments instead
You smile at yourselves and make yourselves happy
You hang out with positive ppl
Not with those who frowns and brings everyone down
Not those who worries about how to draw a straight line
w/o using a ruler and worry about having too little to do
while having too much to do and don't work effectively at all
You know about some DISC test?
About C being Cautious and D being Dominant and S being Stable
and I being Innovate (I think?)
C ppl are those who worry about the sky falling on your head
and not worry about how to make use of your time to make
you or others more happy
They are too worried over slight minute matters which I obviously
think that it aint worth a fish to ponder about
*Fish for vulgarities
Take for example
You got a task at hand
You are suppose to complete it (obviously???)
Then you got questions you need to ask
when being brief on the entire task details
But you kept quiet cuz you thought the person-in-charge
will eat you up and spit out your bones etc
O Come ON PLLLLLLLEASE!
Did you know a person effectively end his quest for knowledge
around the age of 8?
They stop asking questions about the world and becuz
SG parents don't care a hoot bout them with their busy lifes
They say "SHUT THE FISH UP!"
So the child diam diam sit there listen to orders
Take a look around
So many things for us to learn
So many things you have questions about
How high does your oil fry at the pot?
Why does left hander die early?
What in the blue fish is the Bermuda Triangle?
Izzit a short triangle? Or equilateral one instead?
Or best izzit a singlet or jeans?
So many things you are scare of
So many things you dont dare to do
They say about things like
"Life is not measured by the amount of breath you take
But the moments which take your breath away"
So you got no balls to sit on a cockscrew rollercoaster
Then you say becuz you think its a rollercoaster
Like WTF can?
Its like saying Singapore is not hosting the F1 when
you are just at City Hall and thought its some stupid
cars racing
Or even you saw David Beckham and thinks that he stills
play for Manchester United that kinda of damn obvious dumb thing
Dr Vivien Lim says:
"You can get good academic results
But you may not be a good worker"
How true
I say:
In Xinmin I thought everyone was GOD
50% of my classmates are single pointers
Not all made it into the top JCs and score 5As
I go to poly
I see ppl like Edmund and Adrian
PSLE 170 180++
4 pointers and damn good in their studies
I sit in 1E6 and look at everyone who score
PSLE 250 and above
Who the fuck says PSLE means you are good?
Who the fuck says O level means you are good?
Who the fuck says A level means you are good?
Who the fuck says cGPA 3.99999 means you are good?
You aint no shit till you show that you
can adapt to the whole world
I used to think that the world revolves around me
when I was 9 or 10
Everyone had to bow down to me that kinda of thingy
But sadly no. You die
The sun still shine the light on Mother Earth
And Mother Earth won't collapse inwards and get
suck into a black hole and stop revolving just becuz
you are not alive anymore
So snap out of it man!
Get a grip!
Stop this pussy shit
GRRRRRR!
My conclusion
Everytime I happen to encounter such stuff
I draw in a deep breath and say
"Chill man! Princess Chinny chin chin says
smile more and you will feel better!"
I smile to myself and clench my fist for 2 seconds
Let go and its ok temporary
That is the #1 solution
Politically correct and envirnomentally friendly
#2 Solution
Which I have used before and wont hesitate to use again
"Aiya. Fuck it! You scare then fuck off lah!"
"Go, Go, Go. Come on lah. Fuck out of my face!"
This sorta of line
Just scare him away or outright humiliate someone that kind
Hopefully can achieve the effect of waking them up from
their senses through the reverse-psychology effect
Which tend to fail miserably
#3 solution
Complain lor!
To everyone lah!
BTW, congrats for reading so much
Guess you are interested in my blog afterall!
And maybe you wanna come find me talk about this matter?
Do a part and not spread more things around
Things need to be simplified at times
We can use some less gossip mongers
And backstabbing, or front stabbing...
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Sorry its my fault
And the last sentence is contradicting.....
Thanks
Must be feeling weird becuz tml off day
No work equal cranky perhaps?
>.<
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